to be truthful and to be overtly mean can have similiar routes. one can be honest, but choose to omit things that do not have any positive qualities, but yet do not alter meanings, or leave something really missing if they are unsaid. some people say they are just brutally honest, whereas it appears to me they are just assholes with an excuse. these ideas make sense to me. so i would like to say everything i thought to people, but this concept is foreign and people may be freaked, as well as, it make me more of an ass and lastly i am not strong to do this all the time.